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43 Things for Students to Know About Sex, Alcohol, and Relationships


08.18.12 Posted in How to Get a First by

While writing my book, How to Get a First, I came across a lot of interesting research in the areas of psychology, sociology, and education.

Every now and then I would find such gems but since they weren’t always relevant to what I was writing I never shared them, until now.

Below is a video I put together of 43 fun insights for students to know about (1) sex, (2) alcohol, and (3) relationships.

There is also a second part to the video which looks at (4) education and (5) careers, but this will be uploaded later.

Like all research and statistics, you shouldn’t take everything at face value so check out the full list of references after the video.

References

The full list of all the items is given below, along with a reference to the source of the information or evidence.

SEX

1. Yes, the G-spot exists.

G-Spot Anatomy: A New Discovery

2. Bangor University students are the most sexually active.

University Sex League 2012

3. University of Essex students are the least sexually active.

University Sex League 2012

4. Economics students have the highest number of sex partners.

University Inter-course League 2012

5. Around 50% of women fake orgasms.

Men’s and Women’s Reports of Pretending Orgasm

6. But around 25% of guys fake it too.

Men’s and Women’s Reports of Pretending Orgasm

7. Thinking about sex can improve analytical thinking.

The Joy of Sin: The Psychology of the Seven Deadly Sins (chapter 1)

8. Checking Twitter and emails can be harder to resist than sex.

Willpower and desires: Turning up the volume on what you want most

9. Women orgasm 35% as often as men during one-night stands.

Casual Sex: Men, Women Not So Different After All

10. 12% of students have had a three-some.

How Kinky are Students?

11. 39% of students have had sex in a park.

How Kinky are Students?

12. 26% of students have had sex in their housemate’s bed.

How Kinky are Students?

13. On average, students have sex 3 times a week.

Student Sex Survey 2012

14. Guys think about sex 18 times a day.

Men ponder food and sleep as much as sex

15. And women think about sex 10 times a day.

Men ponder food and sleep as much as sex

16. Most people in the UK lost their virginity at 16.

The Sexperience 1000

17. The most promiscious country is…Finland.

Sociosexuality From Argentina to Zimbabwe: A 48-Nation Study of Sex, Culture, and Strategies of Human Mating. Behavioral and Brain Sciences

Brief notes and summary also available here

18. The best time to have sex is between 10 p.m. and 1 a.m. (when skin sensitivity is highest.)

Buy Ketchup in May and Fly at Noon: A Guide to the Best Time to Buy This, Do That and Go There

Best times for other things can also be found here

19. There is a 5% chance of being born with a third nipple (Lilly Allen and Mark Whalberg have one.)

How Sex Works: Why We Look, Smell, Taste, Feel, and Act the Way We Do (pg. 10)

ALCOHOL

20. Smoking while drinking makes beer goggles more potent.

Effects of acute nicotine and alcohol on the rating of attractiveness in social smokers and alcohol drinkers” from Drug and Alcohol Dependence

21. Alcohol does not warm the body. It cools it.

50 Great Myths of Popular Psychology

22. Alcohol is mostly a depressant, not stimulant.

50 Great Myths of Popular Psychology

23. A bit of booze can increase creativity.

Uncorking the muse: alcohol intoxication facilitates creative problem solving

24. The oldest recipe in the world is for beer. It’s 9,000 years old.

Did a thirst for beer spark civilization?

25. All 13 minerals necessary for life can be found in alcohol.

Potsdam.edu

26. Beer goggles can last up to 24 hours.

Effects of acute alcohol consumption on ratings of attractiveness of facial stimuli: evidence of long-term encoding

27. Louder music can make you drink more.

Loud Music Can Make You Drink More, In Less Time, In A Bar

28. An empty beer bottle is more likely to crack your skull than one filled with beer.

Are full or empty beer bottles sturdier and does their fracture-threshold suffice to break the human skull?

29. Intelligent people tend to binge drink more.

More Intelligent People Are More Likely to Binge Drink and Get Drunk

30. Acohol is actually the most harmful drug (more so than heroine and crack!)

Science DailyAlcohol ‘Most Harmful Drug’, According to Multicriteria Analysis

RELATIONSHIPS

31. Expecting people to like you makes it more probable that they will.

The Acceptance Prophecy

32. Great relationships have 5 positives for every 1 negative.

Marriage Math

33. Opposites dont attract, similarities do.

50 Great Myths of Popular Psychology

34. Good friends in touch at least every 2 weeks.

A Simple B.F.F Strategy, Confirmed by Scientists

35. Business and Economics students lie more often than other students.

Do Economists Lie More?

36. B*tching sessions are good for bonding.

Interpersonal chemistry through negativity: Bonding by sharing negative attitudes about others

37. Long distance relationships are often more stable than short distance relationships.

Idealization, reunions, and stability in long-distance dating relationships

38. Women who wear make up get chatted up 6 minutes faster.

Sextistics: Your Sex Stats

39. The best topic for a first date is travel.

Quirkology: The Curious Science Of Everyday Lives

40. A good social life is worth around £85,000 in satisfaction.

Putting a price tag on friends, relatives, and neighbours: Using surveys of life satisfaction to value social relationships

41. The smell of cookies and coffee  can make girls more likely to give out their number.

The sweet smell of… courtship: Effects of pleasant ambient fragrance on women’s receptivity to a man’s courtship request

42. High self-esteem helps guys score but for girls….it doesn’t help as much.

An Implicit Theory of Self-Esteem: The Consequences of Perceived Self-Esteem for Romantic Desirability

43. 23% percent of students have ended a relationships via text.

Student Sex Survey 2012

 

 



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